Thursday 15 March 2012

PARISHIONERS MAKE RETREAT AT BOAR’S HILL


Our hosts at this year’s annual retreat were the Carmelites at their house in Oxford.     Thirty-five pilgrims from the combined parishes were joined by  Sr Jenny, on sabbatical from her missionary order in the Philippines.
Our morning talk from the sub-prior, Father Liam Finnerty OCD (Order of Discalced Carmelites), preceded the sacrament of Confession and an intimate Mass in the bright chapel. Father Liam spoke to us of pain, reconciliation and forgiveness as desert landscapes. Memorably, he talked of the necessity for "ventilating" old hurts to enable new growth. His Irish lyricism held a captive audience as he reminded us that our fears and chaos, seemingly insurmountable, are tiny when placed before the stillness of God.
After a hearty lunch, we gathered for Father Liam's second talk. He spoke emotively and humorously about relationships and our expectations of ourselves and others. He referred to the roles of parents and guardians in the scriptures, describing the beauty of partners sustaining each other's faith through the sacrament of marriage. He was able to emphasise Christ's Passion and sacrifice with a quiet gentleness.

After a chance to browse the well stocked and surprising little bookshop, we were on our way home. After a long day, the group were animated and chatty through the evening traffic: the result of a day of valuable reflection in beautiful surroundings and good company.
                                                                                                                  Report and photos by Gigi

1 comment:

Gigi said...

This was a beautiful day: I know a few of us hadn't been on Retreat since schooldays and I'm not sure what I was anticipating. The day wasn't at all sombre, simply relaxed and reflective. Many thanks to Margaret Heaven for organising: a shame that Father D had to wave us off with his remaining good arm!